Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Looking For A Job: The Dreaded Money Conversation



A couple of days on Twitter I had an exchange with some fellow Twitterer’s (sp?).  One of them had re-tweeted someone, repeated what someone had posted, with regards to how an interviewee was obviously not a good fit because the first question they had asked was what was the Salary Range for the position and they were obviously just in it for the money.

I took exception to this.  Having recently changed jobs within the last year, and being the interviewee & interviewer plenty of times in the past, the importance of the money conversation was still fresh in my mind.

“So Balls,” you say, “it’s all about the money?”


Glad you asked Dear Reader, you need to have more that moves and motivates you than money, but it is important never to underestimate its importance.   I love what I do, but if I could not support my family and do it, I’d do something else.  Family is first to me, and that means money is pretty important when I look at taking a job.

SO YOU’VE DECIDED TO LOOK FOR A JOB

Maybe you’re under paid, maybe you’re overworked and underappreciated, or maybe you’re looking for better opportunities.  There is nothing wrong with any of that.  When you go on Monster, Dice, or [insert job board of choice] and you start looking, eventually, you will probably type in your position and sort by Salary.

This is a good thing to do, you should look at what the posted range is out there.  You should probably go on Salary.com and look at what your position range is for your area.  You should get an idea of what you are worth.  Perhaps you’ve been with your company so long that you are getting paid more than the average person in your area.  Perhaps you are way underpaid.  This knowledge will help you decide what you are looking for and what you should expect to get.


I LOVE THIS JOB BUT WHERE’S THE MONEY

So eventually you find a post, get an email with a job description, or a recruiter contacts you with an opportunity.   You’re psyched, you’re stoked, you’re…….wondering where the salary description is.  Did I miss it?  Did they forget to put it in the information they sent?  You look at the numbers description the averages for your area and you HOPE that this job will come with the salary you want.

This is the point where I will say shame on you COMPANY X or shame on you RECRUITER, not that they are bad people but they are playing the game.  Everyone wants to get good people for the BEST DEAL possible.  You want money from them, they want you to kick butt, take names, and work cheap.  So you have to play the game as well.

The money talk is uncomfortable, we don’t like asking about it.  If you are working with a good recruiter they will share this information with you. 

“But Balls”, you say “I feel a little uncomfortable about asking, how do I do it”



 

SHOW ME THE MONEY



You may be tempted to yell show me the money but that would be the wrong approach.  There are a couple approaches.  If there are questions that you have about the job or the position in an email or a phone call put those up front. 

I’m the kind of guy that I won’t be turned off from a Candidate if money is the first question, but most people aren’t like that, they want to believe in their heart of hearts that you want this jobs for bigger reasons than the money.   So let’s use a little etiquette.

  1.  Make sure and research the company if they have a website visit it, and mention how you are interested to work for this company (And I hope you are!)
  2. Ask a question about the job, or ask to clarify anything that seems ambiguous to you
  3. Politely point out that the salary and salary range information was missing and state that as excited as you are about this opportunity you wouldn’t want to waste the Companies time or yours perusing a position that isn’t right for either of you.

2.       

It’s all about the manners, I mean after all you’re excited for this job, you do want it, but the money does need to be there.  If you ask the right way they will tell you, if they are good and upfront company.

Occasionally you’ll get a response along the lines of “what are you looking for salary range?”, they are being purposely vague.  It’s not bad, but it is someone who is trying to cleverly find out what you want without showing you their cards.  I would respond with the following:

“ a salary range that is fair for my position and experience and allows room to grow and continue to support my family, here is what I’ve seen is the typical range in this area, insert numbers from what your research shows, can you tell me what the specific range for this position is?”


DOING WHAT YOU LOVE FOR ALL THE RIGHT REASONS



We all have somebody to take care of, ourselves or our family and it is hard to work at a job and not enjoy the labors.  We all start at the bottom, it is rare that someone is so brilliant they go straight to the top.  But finding the right job for you is the mixture of a lot of good things, the people around you, the team you work on, your manager, and yes the money.

Money is very important and it should not be over looked because people are afraid of being greedy.  Remember it's not greedy to feed your family, pay your bills on time, or earn an good wage.  Don't be afraid Dear Reader ask when it is important.

The fact is it is a bit of a dance, but if you have to dace be as polite and direct as possible, the end goal is to find a job, get the money, and do the you complete me speech in the living room work happily ever after.

Thanks,

Brad

Friday, May 20, 2011

VOTE FOR MY PASS SESSIONS!

Hello Dear Reader, this is a quick post to ask for your vote, or just for you to vote in general.  Today is the last day of voting for sessions for the 2011 PASS SUMIT.
Here is the link to follow CLICK HERE TO VOTE. (You will need a PASS account to vote, but they are FREE!)
And here is a list of the Sessions I have submitted.  I’ve presented on Compression at SQL Saturday 62, SQL Saturday 74, SQL Rally, for the MAGICPASS SSUG, and for the Virtual DBA Chapter of PASS.  If you’ve viewed the presentation and can spare the time I’d appreciate it.

Page and Row Compression How, When, and Why

Page and Row Compression are powerful new tools. Vardecimal shipped with SQL 2005 SP2, Page & Row with SQL 2008 RTM, and Page & Row with Unicode Compression with SQL 2008 R2. Get an overview into how each version of compression works internally. Learn how your Allocation Units will determine if your data is a candidate for compression. Understand how your tables Update and Scan pattern’s affect the compression types you should consider. And what you should you take into consideration for additional overhead.

Page & Row Compression Deep Dive

Page and Row Compression are powerful new tools. Page & Row with SQL 2008 RTM, and Page & Row with Unicode Compression with SQL 2008 R2.  We can turn it on, we can turn it off, but we want more!  What are Access Methods and how in the SQL Engine do they affect Compression?  What are the “Gotchas” of Page Compression?  How does Compression differ in the way it treats Non-Leaf & Leaf Level pages?  What additional functionality did we get in DBCC Page, DMV’s, Perfmon Counters, and Extended Events to support our usage of Compression?  How do complex query plans affect Compression?  Come find out!

Transparent Data Encryption Inside and Out

Security is a very important part of your job and in how data is utilized.  We have many tools to make data more secure, and starting in SQL 2008 we were able to add Transparent Data Encryption to that list.  Find out What it does, What it doesn’t do, how it effects Read-Only Filegroups, Performance, Compression (Backup and Row/Page), and other Advance Features as well as some tips on how to manage it.
Thanks,

Brad

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

TO THE ORGANIZERS OF SQL RALLY THANK YOU!


SQL Rally is over, and before we get too far away from it, I just wanted to say a quick Thank You.  

There was a lot of work done to pull off the SQL Rally.  It was over 1 year in the planning, and it showed.  I’m still relatively new to Florida, I moved here not even a year ago.  And when I did, I had no idea what a rich SQL Community it had as a state.  There are over 12 PASS Chapters in the state of Florida, an average of at 5 SQL Saturday’s a year, and this year the Inaugural SQL Rally.

Going to these events you see a lot of the same people time and time again.  Kendal Van Dyke (@SQLDBA|blog), Gareth Swanepoel (@GarethSwan|blog), Pam Shaw (@PamShaw), Jack Corbett (@UncleBigUns|blog), Karla Landrum (@KarlaKay22|blog), Rodney Landrum (@SQLBeat|blog), Jorge Segarra (@SQLChicken|Blog), Adam Jorgensen (@adam_jorgensen|blog), Andy Warren (@SQLAndy|blog), and this is the second time in less than a year I’ve seen Louis Davidson (@DrSQL|Blog) down in Florida volunteering his time, VA Beach or Tennessee, either way that’s a long way to travel!


If we could group all of these folks in a room, and I’m sure there are even more that I’ve left out, and give them a standing ovation it wouldn’t be enough.  When you take the time to speak, it takes a lot of preparation, planning Demo’s, Slide Decks, and learning, time that it takes outside of work and from your family. 

When you are planning an event like this, coordinating the speakers, finding the venue, getting sponsors, working on Logo’s, Websites, brochures, marketing, meetings, planning nightly activities, pre-con’s, the list goes on and on, you do a lot more.  It takes a lot more, and that is a lot less time you have with your family.



When you see the pictures that Kendal Van Dyke posted on his flickr account, the first couple pictures you see show the work being done while you are on the verge of the event.  Jack, Andy, and Kendal all had really great blogs leading up to the Rally, but nobody is there taking pictures when you have a planning meeting, nobody is handing out swag for time spent weeding out the venues, when you negotiate a deal for rooms, or get funding there is no crowd to break out in applause.

We attend these events because we are passionate about SQL, we are all striving to share with one another to better ourselves and each other.  The people that put on these events, they love this at a whole different level.  I don’t think they get to hear “Thank You”, nearly enough.  Maybe I'm wrong, I hope they do.

So this is the only way I can think to do it.  If you had a hand in Volunteering Thank You, If you had a hand in putting together a Session or a Pre-Con Thank You, and for all the people that put in their time, were away from their families, and made the big picture come together Thank You.

Send them a message on Twitter, go to their blog, or shoot them an email and just say Thank You. I had a blast, I can’t wait to do it again, and I really appreciate all the hard work.  So one more time, because I could never say it enough, Thank You for all you do so that we can learn.

Thanks Again,

Brad